Day 12 of Prayer: Strength for my Child

Luke 2:40
⁴⁰ And the child grew and became strong; he was filled with wisdom, and the grace of God was on him.  

Father,
Though this passage is talking about your Son, I ask that you would watch over the child in my womb. Allow him or her to grow and become strong. May the days of his or her life glorify You and Your name. May they gain knowledge and understanding by growing close to You, relying on the strength You provide, and not their own. 
Amen.

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1 Day Left!!

In 24 1/2 hours we'll be on our way to the doctor's office to find out if Baby D is a boy or a girl! I can hardly stand it! The only real obstacle between now and then is finishing this 7 page paper due for my summer class--I can hardly focus on getting this assignment done what with being so excited! Here's hoping the rest of you have an anxiousLESS day!

What I Bought....Maternity Style

I blogged over the weekend about missing my husband since he was on his guy trip, but I also mentioned that I had a busy day with my mom. I can't even remember the last time the two of us had some time together and it was soooo refreshing! We went to my cousin's bridal shower where we were able to catch up with some family! The shower was a blast and we had a lot of fun gabbing about babies, my cousin's upcoming nuptials, and other shenanigans. After the shower, mom and I decided why let the phone stop there and stopped by Valley View Mall in Roanoke. We hit up JCPenney (who apparently said they took down their maternity line last week but will have it up again next week??? Seriously, you're killing me smalls!) so we ended up doing some shopping at Motherhood Maternity. I'd been there before, but since their clothes are a little more expensive, I wanted to see if  I could get a better deal elsewhere first, however, this store truly had the better items for what I needed.

The reason for us stopping to shop is because with school fast approaching I needed to get some career appropriate maternity clothes. I have a lot of beautiful tops I've worn throughout the years, but I can't fit into most of them (sad face). So I found a few items I can add to my wardrobe without breaking the bank. Check out what I got! At the top are two tops of identical style, but different colors and next is a pair of gray dress pants, love them and they fit great! And to the right is another top I can either wear with the gray pants or other pants I'm still able to get my behind into! I'm currently awaiting a package that should hopefully have a cardigan from Old Navy, I love me some cardigans and its been well over 3-4 years since I bought one, but my white one has recently bit the dust so out with the old in with the new. I love to shop, but with a baby on the way, I've come to realize I really and truly only need to buy what I need instead of what I want, but with the gender reveal in just a few days, I'll have tons of fun registering and possibly shopping for a few baby items that are gonna be for little miss or mister! Oh, and I can't forget, a shout out to my parent's neighbor for finding a pair of maternity capris and skirt for a grand total of $3! She found them at Goodwill and in great condition! Do your thing Goodwill, I'm gonna have to stop by your store soon!

Boy or Girl?!

Can I just say how freaking excited I am that in exactly two days we'll be finding out the sex of our baby, eeep! I feel like a little kid at Christmas, so anxious and about to tear into everything! So, the question of the day remains, do you think Baby D is a boy or a girl?! Please comment with your guess and tune in on Thursday to see if your guess was correct!

Day 11 of Prayer: Strength for a Mother

Proverbs 31:17; 25
¹⁷ She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks.
 ²⁵ She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.

1 Corinthians 16:13
¹³ Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong. 

Ephesians 6:10
¹⁰ Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. 


Father, 
These verses are a reflection of what it means to be strong. I ask that as a mother, I would be strong in my faith. Not doubting You and Your will. Allow the necessary physical changes my body needs to make in order to make way for the rest of a strong and healthy pregnancy. During this time of preparation, I know the task before me (labor, delivery, and caring for our little one) will be tough and I ask that you make Adam and me strong enough to endure it. Let us not be reckless and always be mindful that the way to parent our children is by following Your example. You Lord, are gracious and abounding in all things and we know we can rest in the shelter of your wings, for you are strong and mighty. 
Amen. 

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Super Excited about THIS

I have a good list of blogs I try to keep up with. Most of them are encouraging and I can relate to somehow, but most importantly, they're down to earth and all about the Lord. One such fellow southerner I've enjoyed following is Project: Babies. This girl is on the ball with her blog. She blogs regularly and about normal everyday occurrences that we all think of. She's already a momma of one (currently expecting baby #2) and has some good tips, ideas, and advice! One item she recently blogged about was breastfeeding. This is something I'm really hoping I can do once our little one is born, but after I go back to school I've been wondering, how am I gonna be able to breast feed if I'm at school and the baby's not with me? Solution: get a breast pump. Except, I don't want to shell out nearly $300 for one of those suckers or have anyone else shell out that much either, so home girl, Kristin blogged about this hot item here, and I got sooo excited so I went ahead and added it to our registry list; that and all the extra bottles, storage items etc. The pump itself is anywhere around $30 to $40 depending on what site you go to. That sounds like a much better deal to me! I've read some good reviews, but if any of you ladies out there still have a review to give, I'd love to hear, just post some comments below!

The Little Things

My husband went on a guys' trip this weekend with family and friends to see the Liverpool soccer team play in Baltimore earlier today. I'm actually very proud of him. He's not a social butterfly like me and is content with spending every evening at home; not that that's a problem, but it's good for him to socialize and interact with other men, specifically other male Christians. So I'm very thankful that he had this opportuntiy to get out with the guys and have a good time. On the other hand...
while I've had a few weekend trips this summer without the hubbs, boy is it super different. strange, and lonesome to be the one who's left to stay at home. I'll admit, I did have plans: my mother and I went to my cousin's bridal shower, and had some time afterwards to shop. Still, nothing beats the comfort and presence of having my husband around. I know it's good for us to have some time apart because it helps us to not take the other for granted and to really cherish our time together--I believe the cliche "absence makes the heart grow fonder" is highly appropriate here, but it still sucks when he's away. So, since I'm such a baby, I decided to stay at my parent's house tonight. I know, I know, I'm a grown woman, but I guess being pregnant has made me more vulnerable needy and it gives me peace of mind to feel safe with other people around. After all, no offense to our cats, but they're not gonna protect me if someone decides to break-in. Well that's my ramblings for now. In less than 24 hours the hubbs will be right back where he belongs, with me :-)

Day 10 of Prayer: Run the Race

Acts 20:24²⁴ However, I consider my life worth nothing to me; my only aim is to finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me —the task of testifying to the good news of God’s grace.

Father,
Help me to  train as if I were an athlete. Training for physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual wholeness as I run the race to serve You. May those who standby encourage me and not hinder my progress. May this race be proof that it's always worth running. Give me the endurance to handle the rough times, especially now that Adam and I will be my parents. Help us to make the best choices that will honor You. May we remain hydrated by taking in Your word and sharing who You are with others. For in the end, the prize is worth the race.
Amen.

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Day 9 of Prayer: Rest

Psalm 62:5 says

⁵ Yes, my soul, find rest in God;
    my hope comes from him.

Matthew 11:28-30 says²⁸ “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. ²⁹ Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls."  ³⁰ For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

Oxen Yoke

Our only rest in life, truly comes from the Lord. It doesn't come from going to a spa and getting a manicure or pedicure. It doesn't come from getting a massage or relaxing in a hot tub. We're attentive to our physical needs as life happens, but our soul should continually strive to find rest in the Lord. Finding rest in the Lord is the only area we will truly find peace and happiness. I love the second verse especially because a yoke (see picture) is essentially a heavy load to carry. Usually, two oxen are yoked together so that one can help the other out and the weight isn't too burdensome for they are both sharing the load. If we take the Lord's yoke, he tells us in advance that it is light; he will help us carry the load. How blessed are we that in fact he did take the weight of the world on his shoulders by dying for the sins of the world.

Father,
Help me to continually keep my mind on You and to find rest in you daily. I know I can find this rest by spending time with You in Your word and in prayer. During this time of pregnancy, we have forty weeks to wait and rest in You in preparation for getting ready for our little one. I want to be the best mother, just as Adam wants to be the best father, but we know first and foremost we must take care of our spiritual needs. Help us to give daily to you our worries, burdens, trials, temptations, etc. and know that you are right there with us, carrying the yoke.
Amen

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Preggo Stats--Week 19

How far along: 19 weeks

Total weight gain: Still at -7lbs (we  go to the doctor next week so we'll see if this changes)

How big is baby: The size of a mango!

Maternity Clothes: Yep! Starting to look at clothes I can wear when school starts back!

Sleep: Has been getting better, but I am starting to toss and turn more.

Best moment this week: Having several days off with the hubbs!

Movement: Something's going on, hopefully it'll be confirmed next week at the doctor's office!

Food cravings: Cookies/Cookie dough

Food aversions: Turns out it wasn't acid reflux, my prenatal vitamins have been making me sick this whole time! So I know it's not a food, but vitamins are in this category of "aversions." I've been taking them at night to make sure the baby is still able to get all the DHA and folic acid it needs.

Gender: We find out in 1 week, I can hardly stand it, woohoo!!!

Labor signs: None

Belly button in or out: In

What I miss: Runny aka over-easy eggs
What I'm not loving: Less than two weeks until I have to return to work, boo!

What I’m looking forward to: Going on a mini-vacation next week to see family and friends!

What I'm loving:  How great I've been feeling during the second trimester!

Milestone(s): Starting to feel some slight movement in my belly!!!!!!!

Baby's Development - Week 19

I can't believe we've made it to 19 weeks because that means we're that much closer to 20--which really means, we have less than one week to find out what our baby is!!! This baby is growing by leaps and bounds and I'm starting to somewhat feel some movement, though it's nothing definite yet. I hope to really be able to feel those kicks soon and Adam does, too! This time next week, we'll already know the sex of the baby, so watch out for our gender reveal, and be sure to pop in for baby's development again to see how much he/she has grown!

Courtesy of http://pregnant.thebump.com/pregnancy-week-by-week/19-weeks-pregnant.aspx

Day 8 of Prayer: Obedience

When Hezekiah became ill, to the point that he was going to die (and that was even confirmed by Isaiah) he turned to the wall and prayed, asking God to remember how he had served him, then he wept bitterly. Because God heard Hezekiah's prayer he chose to give him an additional 15 years to live. In response to that, Hezekiah wrote a response to his illness and recovery, the following verse is part of that.


Isaiah 38:19
 ¹⁹ The living, the living—they praise you,
    as I am doing today;
parents tell their children
    about your faithfulness.

and 

 Colossians 3:20
²⁰ Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord.

Father,
Help Adam and I to be faithful and obedient to You, for we know this pleases You. We want our children to hear us give You praise and thanks for all You do, whether You give or take away. By leading and being an example of being obedient we want to bring glory to Your name, just as Abraham's faithfulness did. And just as Hezekiah mentioned, we too will tell our children about Your faithfulness. Help us to lead them in a home that is faithful to serving You so that they know what it means to be obedient.  
Amen


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Day 7 of Prayer: Words

Lately, I've been thinking about the words that come out of my  mouth, especially the ones that would make my mother and mother-in-law blush. I think how can I be a Christian if my mouth wanders so far off from what should please God? I want my words to reflect what Psalm 19:14 says, "May the words of my mouth and meditations of my heart be acceptable (or pleasing) in your sight, O' Lord, my Strength and my Redeemer." I think that cliche: garbage in equals garbage out. How am I to be an example of Christ to my family if I can't control my tongue? I am reminded of what the following passage says:


James 3: 1-12

1Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly. ² We all stumble in many ways. Anyone who is never at fault in what they say is perfect, able to keep their whole body in check.

³ When we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, we can turn the whole animal. ⁴ Or take ships as an example. Although they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go. ⁵ Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. ⁶ The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.
⁷ All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind, ⁸ but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.
⁹ With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. ¹⁰ Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. ¹¹ Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring? ¹² My brothers and sisters, can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water.

Father,
As David says in Psalm 51:10 "Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me." Help me to have a clean heart. May the words that leave my mouth be a reflection of what is in my heart.  Let my words glorify you and your renown. I want to be a mother that shows her child(ren) what it means to honor you and how to control what she says by thinking of you first. Help me to be mindful of those around me. Help me to remember that no matter what, I never know who is listening and that I should always use my tongue as an opportunity to build up rather than tear down. 
Amen.  

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My 100th Post!!!

Wow, never thought I'd actually get to post #100! I'm gonna use this opportunity to do what my prayer for the day is: to encourage with my words rather than tear down. In spite of the controversy about same-sex marriage, I am glad to see a company that holds fast to Biblical standards and has the right, thank goodness, under the first amendment to support those standards. Chick-fil-a, continue to stand strong and remember serving God and upholding his Word is more important than the ways of this world. Remember:

1 John 2:15
¹⁵ Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father^[a] is not in them. 

and 

James 1: 2-4
² Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters,^[a] whenever you face trials of many kinds, ³ because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. ⁴ Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.

Day 6 of Prayer: Parenthood & Leading

This is one of my absolute favorite verses. Back in high school, I became a BIG Third Day fan and the lyrics to one of their songs "My Hope Is You" matched the verses I was reading in my Bible. Check it out:

Psalm 25:4-5

⁴ Show me your ways, Lord,
    teach me your paths.
⁵ Guide me in your truth and teach me,
    for you are God my Savior,
    and my hope is in you all day long.

  

These verses continue to encourage me long after I first connected the Third Day song to this part of God's word. And with it here's my prayer. 

Father,

How fitting it is that you are called that since we are your children. While you are the ultimate parent, I have no clue what it's like to be a parent and while I'm really excited most days, I'm also terrified. What if I make the wrong decision(s)? How will I handle this situation or that? What if I lose my cool? But you Lord, say not to worry. And instead, to put my hope in you. Because you are the Instructor, I will follow Your lead. Help Adam and I as we navigate this journey we're about to embark. Please continue to work your holy spirit in our lives so that we'll know how to lead and teach our little one by making the best decisions: by following you and putting our hope daily in You. 

Amen. 

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Day 5 of Prayer: Confidence & Faithfulness

Why did  I choose to pray over this pregnancy, that's easy! Because God commands us to not be anxious, to not worry, and to place our desires at his feet. Philippians 4: 6 says, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God." Because I love God and I trust Him, I will do as His word says. Therefore I think another affirmation to those who have faith in Him should read the following: 

1 John 5: 14-15

¹⁴ This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. ¹⁵ And if we know that he hears us—whatever we ask—we know that we have what we asked of him. 

Notice the key to those two verses are conditional statements: IF we ask...according to HIS will (not my will) and IF we know he hears our requests THEN we know we have what we asked of Him. How much more confidence does one need to know that if God is sure to take care of the birds of the air (see Matthew 6:25-34) then He'll also take care of us, those who were made in His image?!  

Father,
I know that I can bring anything to You, before the words even leave my lips. When I doubt your will and whether or not you hear me, I know I can always go back to Your word, and be reminded that you do. I ask Lord that your hand would continue to be over this pregnancy. I ask that this pregnancy would glorify Your name and Your will. I praise You for all you've done and I ask that the little one growing in me would have the same confidence in approaching You and serving You. 
Amen. 

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Homemade Doughnuts

This is the best thing since sliced bread (not that I was around before it wasn't sliced but you get the idea)! Homemade doughnuts, I don't know why I didn't blog about this before! It's very very simple, too--no need to get out flour, eggs, etc.

Ingredients/Supplies

• Pillsbury buttermilk canned biscuits
• Vegetable oil
• Frying pan
• Fork to turn doughnuts with in frying pan
• Soda cap to cut out doughnuts
• Plate to put doughnuts on
• Powdered sugar (fill in one ziplock bag)
• Brown sugar/cinnamon (fill in one ziplock bag)

 The collage on the right is the order in which this works: open up your buttermilk biscuits, using a cutting board or anything flat, take the top from a soda bottle (I took the top from a vanilla bottle) and you simply punch out the middle like I did, next you fill your frying pan with vegetable oil, put the stove on medium-high heat (watch out for splatters--that stuff hurts) and then you take your cut out doughnuts and put them in the pan, in a matter of a few seconds flip them over, they'll look golden brown. We're you're done (and don't forget the doughnut holes either) grab two ziplock bags. We like our doughnuts with powdered sugar and brown sugar/cinnamon, but you can also use icing mix or any other item you like your doughnuts covered in. Put a doughnut or two in the bag of your choice at a time and then shake it up, take it out and voila! You're very own homemade doughnut! Enjoy!

Preggo Stats--Week 18

How far along: 18 weeks

Total weight gain: Same as last a total of -7lbs, crazy I know!

How big is baby: The size of a sweet potato!

Maternity Clothes: Yes! Started wearing the mock "bella band" I got from Motherhood Maternity.

Sleep: Still really weird dreams and the sleep has been off and on for being good and bad.

Best moment this week: Making it to 18 weeks!

Movement: Still waiting to feel the flutters. Nothing yet, but hopefully something soon!

Food cravings: Tacos and ice cream, but not at the same time!

Food aversions: None really, still no processed foods.

Gender: We'll find out in 2 weeks!!!

Labor signs: None

Belly button in or out: In

What I miss: sleeping on my stomach
What I'm not loving: Having a stuffy nose and lots of painful headaches!

What I’m looking forward to: Feeling the baby move!!!

What I'm loving:  The fact that our basement is finally coming together!

Milestone(s): We're officially in the 5th month!

Day 4 of Prayer: Health

I apologize for missing yesterday. The hubbs and I had an extremely busy day. I logged on, wrote a snippet about what I love about being pregnant and then off we were to help my dad at my parents' place. I had anticipated coming home last night and fulfilling my duty of blogging about Day 4 of Prayer within this pregnancy, but while we were at my parents house I suffered a horrible no good very bad migraine! One of the worst I've ever had. So when Adam was done helping my dad, we ended up coming home and I crashed. I ate some chicken noodle soup -- doesn't that always make everything better?! -- I wish it did, but I basically had to fall asleep to knock this one out. And because I went to bed so early, I woke up around 4am wide awake and ready to go. I woke up Adam and talked about Wuthering Heights because of course, I have crazy dreams right now. So anywho, again, I apologize; this is to say I'm back and here's what I mulled and prayed over today: health. Please see Hannah's prayer as she wrote about this a while back. 

Proverbs 3:7-8 says:


⁷ Do not be wise in your own eyes;
    fear the Lord and shun evil.
⁸ This will bring health to your body
    and nourishment to your bones. 

Father,
You are the healer. Your word says that if we fear You and shun evil, this will bring health to our bodies and nourishment to our bones. I ask that throughout this pregnancy you would continue to give me and this child a healthy and safe experience by choosing to follow what is good. I ask that you would give me guidance to continue to make healthy choices when it comes to eating and I ask that you would make my child's body strong and healthy in preparation for life outside the womb. And I thank you for the provisions you've made for us so far, you Lord are good.
Amen

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Baby's Development - Week 18

We finally made it to 18 weeks and couldn't be more happy! Starting this week is when we can expect to start feeling the baby move. The average pregnant woman usually will feel her child between 18-22 weeks, we're hoping to be closer to the 18 week mark. And just a little less than two weeks we'll be finding out the sex of the baby, how exciting!!! I've been looking at pinterest and other sites for some ideas on nurseries, my only complaint is that that stuff is really expensive?! And why? Babies use less blankets, sheets, etc. than I do for my queen size bed! Sheesh. Anywho, here's the usual snippet about baby's development this week, enjoy!

Courtesy of The Bump at http://pregnant.thebump.com/pregnancy-week-by-week/18-weeks-pregnant.aspx

What I'm Loving About Being Preggers

I am loving the second trimester! I have felt so much better and energetic, it's great! So far, and maybe this is brutally honest, but let's go there anyways:

• I love that being pregnant = no period! I'd much rather feel my body change and adjust to this new life than have another period
• Not feeling nauseous anymore, who likes throwing up anyways?!
• Although I have been experiencing "baby brain" (yes look it up, it's real) I have been more intentional and focused
• Pregnancy has jumped start this better, newer me - who I am in Christ, in my relationship with others, and especially how I act (refer back to yesterday's Day 3 of Prayer post of what I am striving for)
• I am starting to feel and look more pregnant which makes me all kinds of happy and plus-size cute
• I am getting projects done! We (ok, more like the hubbs, but I pitch in when I can) are working on finishing our basement so it'll be the "kids/family room"
• Listening to my mother and mother-in-law talk about their experiences while being pregnant =  closer to them in our relationships
• Hearing the baby's heartbeat is like music to my ears

Day 3 of Prayer: Godly Character

Colossians 3: 12 says, "Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience."

I chose this verse yesterday, allowing myself to mull over what it meant and what it's saying, but more specifically, what God is saying to my heart. I've been thinking about my actions lately. Do they reflect that I serve a loving and yet fearful God? Am I serving as Christ served? I would admit that I'm compassionate, but am I really giving until it hurts? Am I really meeting the needs of others who I know are in need? I'm certainly kind to most people, but what about those who know me best, like my husband and family--I usually treat them the worst, taking out my unjust anger or not communicating clearly and then getting into an argument over it. If I were kind, I'd certainly be more humble, let's just say I need to work on that one as well. Gentleness? Sometimes I am, sometimes I'm not. I know my tongue has the ability to tear down or build up, do my words reflect Christ? Am I patient when I'm really pushed to the point--sometimes yes and unfortunately sometimes no--I hate when I lose my cool with my students. It's an ugly side of me no one should see. So all of that is to say this....

Father,
You know my heart, Lord. I want to be the best mother I can possibly be and more importantly, the best servant and follower I can be to You. I ask that you help me during this time of pregnancy to work on these attributes that clearly indicate how I should spiritually and mentally be clothed. I want my son or daughter to see me emulate these characteristics so that they too would know the I Am. Please give me the grace to be compassionate and to act upon those who I can comfort and whose needs I can meet. When I start to lose my cool and patience, please help me to remember the way you treated others, with kindness, gentleness, and patience. I ask Lord that all this would be done to glorify Your name.
Amen.

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Day 2 of Prayer: Good Work

Philippians 1:3-6 

^"3 I thank my God every time I remember you. ⁴ In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy ⁵ because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now, ⁶ being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus"

Father, 
Yesterday I said you are good and you still are and always will be. You have a perfect will and the perfect plan. I am blessed, so very blessed, that this pregnancy is part of Your will. That I have the chance to have this child growing in me and to have such a supportive husband and loving family. It is my hope that you Lord would have Adam and I lead our children as You would have us lead, that we may look to you always and remember Your will. As we continue to share who you are throughout the world and what your Son has done on the cross, it also my prayer that our little one would be part of this "good work," too. Please continue to order our steps and let us  remember that you God always complete what you began for you will not be mocked by men or Satan.
Amen 

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Lucky-in-Love

Get a load of this fella...

Hiya handsome!!

I am one lucky girl to be married to this man! How did I snag such a fella? God certainly did a wonderful work when our paths collided! I just want to take the time on this manic Monday to give my hubby some accolades. He's been extremely supportive and generous in giving his time to help me around the house. He has such a heart to serve and he certainly goes above and beyond any expectations I have. As soon as he gets home from work he always welcomes me with outstretched arms to embrace and kiss me and talks to our baby.

Always cracking me up!

He's a hard worker, I mean a REALLY hard worker. He puts 110% into any task and will get down right disgusting, but he never NEVER complains! He is the best person I know, and he makes me want to be a better wife, soon to be mother, daughter, friend, sister, teacher and Christian. He knows how to encourage me when I need it, and he's genuine when he does so. He makes me laugh and knows how to make any day better. He takes care of me when I'm sick. And best of all, he knows how to lead us and our soon to be family of three. I love and adore him and I couldn't be more thankful that God chose to make this man my husband. You're an amazing husband, friend, brother, son, Christian, and soon to be father. I love you, Adam!

40 Days of Prayer - Day 1: God's Gift

I know, it's the middle of July and I've got Pandora doing rounds of Christmas music, but I can't help it! I've got visions of a newborn dancing in my head and it just fills my heart with all kinds of happy. Isn't our Savior so good and wonderful to bring about such goodness?! I've been praying about how I may serve the Lord and grow closer to Him, while still remaining mindful and intentional in my relationship with Him. I've decided that during this time of pregnancy I need to set aside a time (40 days) to reflect and pray purposefully and daily about the joys and struggles of life. I've been encouraged by another friend Hannah, to pray for her and the babies growing in our bellies! I hope this will be a time of encouragement for those of you who read this as well. So let me tell what's been going on lately....

I've been reading through the book of James and I'm reminded of this verse in chapter 1: 16-17:
^"16 Don’t be deceived, my dear brothers and sisters. ¹⁷ Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows." 


Father, 
I thank you for your goodness that you've given us. Goodness that none of us deserve. Thank you for loving me enough to send your one and only Son to die on a cross for my sins. Thank you for blessing me with a wonderful, hardworking husband, who continually proves himself by serving us day in and day out. Thank you for a family that continues to support and love us no matter we need; families that put You first and lead us the best way by serving You, we hope to be shining examples of Your love just as they have. And thank you for bringing about this precious life living and growing inside me. You are good and the fact you sent your Son to die for me is more than enough proof. Thank you and praise be to You alone. 
Amen.  
  
**Next day here**

Preggo Stats--Week 17

How far along: 17 weeks

Total weight gain: -2 lbs more! Yep that's a total of a 7 pound loss! I asked the doctor if this was ok and she said that it's normal for a plus size gal to lose weight (first with the nausea and vomiting in the first trimester and then it can continue if you're eating healthier and aren't eating meals like you used to) good to know and thanks doc!

How big is baby: The size of an onion!

Maternity Clothes: Yes!

Sleep: Still really weird dreams and the sleep has been off and on for being good and bad.

Best moment this week: Hearing the baby's heartbeat again at the doctor's office, this time it was much louder and stronger, still going 160 bpm!

Movement: Still awaiting to feel the flutters. Nothing yet, but hopefully something soon!

Food cravings: Vegetables: corn, peas, asparagus, squash, carrots, salads, etc.

Food aversions: None really, still no processed foods.

Gender: We'll find out in 3 weeks!!!

Labor signs: None

Belly button in or out: In

What I miss: Eating deli meats for lunch on a sandwich!
What I'm not loving: The heat! It's crazy: last weekend we were in the triple digits and have been topping the 90s this week!

What I’m looking forward to: Feeling the baby move

What I'm loving:  The hot tub! We got it going and don't worry, we monitor the temperature and the time I'm in there so I don't "cook" our little one, but the jets in the tub have helped my back and feet!

Milestone(s): Starting and hopefully finishing our basement within the next week!

Baby's Deveopment - Week 17

Lately we've been getting more and more excited around here! Why?! Well #1 supposedly, around 18-22 weeks, and even as early as 16 in some women, the baby will start to move, flip, kick, etc. So I've done my homework and in several mommy-to-be books and sites it discusses how you may think it's just gas but it really could be the baby moving! I'm not sure what all I've been feeling, but I sure am ready to feel those flutters! Hopefully we'll be feeling them soon, move baby move!

Courtesy of The Bump at http://pregnant.thebump.com/pregnancy-week-by-week/17-weeks-pregnant.aspx

Pregnancy, Babies, & Modesty

I recently read another blogger's thoughts on motherhood and modesty at "Our Nest in The City and I'm very impressed with Emily's bravery at voicing this concern. As a soon to be mother I adore the pictures my husband and I take every Wednesday/Thursday to document our growing baby, however, I find it highly ironic that women who support modesty have no problem whatsoever shedding the clothes for a nearly nude pregnancy photo shoot or picture. I'm not here to argue what is or is not considered beautiful. However, I wonder at what point is it acceptable to simply throw away the clothes and let it hang out so to speak? I can still see a beautiful belly bump picture with your clothes still covering your body.

And while we're on the topic, if Adam and I find out we're having a girl, our standards will not change simply because she's a little girl. In particular, when we've stopped by the clothing sections at various stores lately, we've noticed the plethora of baby bikinis for little girls. What happened to a one piece???? The world wonders why little girls want to grow up  so quickly and why they aren't appearing their age, it's because the advertising industry, Hollywood, and the television industry all shout that its perfectly acceptable to grow up quickly and become women faster than they're supposed to be. So, to get to the point, this may just be my conservative voice coming out, but I refuse to lower my standards on modesty simply because it's cute and I'm pregnant.

Preggo Stats--Week 16

How far along: 16 weeks

Total weight gain: still at -5 lbs (going to the doctor next week so we'll see how this changes)

How big is baby: The size of an avocado!

Maternity Clothes: Yes! I bought a few new shirts, but would still like to my hands on another pair of shorts.

Sleep: Still really weird dreams and the sleep has been off and on for being good and bad.

Best moment this week: My best friend got married and I was the matron of honor!

Movement: Still awaiting to feel the flutters. Nothing yet, but hopefully something soon!

Food cravings: Meat: seafood (crab) and ribs!

Food aversions: Processed foods (still)

Gender: We'll find out in 4 weeks!!!

Labor signs: None for a while!!!

Belly button in or out: In

What I miss: Being able to sleep on my stomach
What I'm not loving: The heat! It's crazy: last weekend we were in the triple digits and have been topping the 90s this week!

What I’m looking forward to: Feeling the baby move!

Milestone(s): Actually looking pregnant! I feel like you can really tell we're starting to grow in this picture!

Baby's Development - Week 16

This past week has been crazy busy! My best friend announced three weeks ago that she'd be getting married on the 30th of June which left me searching for a dress and anything I could do to help her out! I am happy to say that the wedding was beautiful and went off without a hitch! It was a beach wedding so I was concerned about whether or not I could handle the heat, but thankfully, the sun was setting and the heat was dying down so I was able to do my job as the matron of honor! Baby Davis did just fine, too and rather enjoyed himself/herself! This week our little bun has made it to 16 weeks and is the size of an avocado, as always read on for more!

4th of July

I don't normally write posts like this but I couldn't help myself. Maybe it's because I'm pregnant and my hormones are kickin', but I'd like to think it's also the government teacher in me that cannot take this comment lightly. Here's what I'm referring to:

A friend of mine on facebook said the following:

every year i am morally conflicted on the fourth of july.

"there are two great lies that i've heard:
the day you eat of the fruit of that tree, you will not surely die
and that Jesus Christ was a white, middle-class republican
and if you wanna be saved you have to learn to be like Him

my first allegiance is not to a flag, a country, or a man
my first allegiance is not to democracy or blood
it's to a King & a Kingdom"
(derek webb)

My response to that was: Really?! You're morally conflicted?! Let me help you out, Luke 20: 20-26 says:
²⁰ Keeping a close watch on him, they (i.e., the scribes and chief priests) sent spies, who pretended to be sincere. They hoped to catch Jesus in something he said, so that they might hand him over to the power and authority of the governor. ²¹ So the spies questioned him: “Teacher, we know that you speak and teach what is right, and that you do not show partiality but teach the way of God in accordance with the truth. ²² Is it right for us to pay taxes to Caesar or not?”
²³ He saw through their duplicity and said to them, ²⁴ “Show me a denarius. Whose image and inscription are on it?”
“Caesar’s,” they replied.
²⁵ He said to them, “Then give back to Caesar what is Caesar’s, and to God what is God’s.”
²⁶ They were unable to trap him in what he had said there in public. And astonished by his answer, they became silent.

It's pretty clear that the Lord does not declare that any man or woman's allegiance must be to a ruler, what He says is that what you owe him is to be rendered. Jesus does not say to worship Caesar. Therefore, my allegiance is first and foremost to God and to follows his command that whatever government I live under, I must be responsible and pay the taxes required of me. And secondly, I am 100% thankful that this is the country the Lord allowed my ancestors to come and live. I am 100% thankful that I live in a democratic country which allows comments like the one this person has written and even my own ramblings on this blog to be published thanks to freedom of speech and the press. And I am, above all else, 110% thankful that I live in a country that promotes freedom of religion where I am able to worship and praise my God the way I wish. So really and truly, I am not morally conflicted and there's no reason anyone else should be either because obviously if this is the land God wants you to be to serve Him you'll remain and if it's not, then He'll lead and direct you elsewhere; and wherever you end up living, "Give to Caesar (any government authority) what is Caesar's, and to God what is God's."