I guess I’ve been avoiding typing up everything as of late. In fact, it’s been months since I last actually posted, again. I regret that I have not been more consistent in keeping you informed of my lif e. I suppose the best place to start is to pick up right where I left off, except skim over some of the hogde pogde of the everyday. I had had a horrible week and a horrible time deciding if I should accept an interview back in Henry County for a teaching position. I had already been there once for one interview, and just felt deep down inside I wasn’t gonna be given the position (which I did not receive—no surprise there), so when it came to going down a second time I wasn’t completely sure it’s what I should do. Given the situation, stress, and worry of this decision, I did all I could, pray. Surprisingly, praying didn’t make me feel better. I prayed and asked that if God wanted me to move back home, even if it meant taking me out of my comfort zone and making me uncomfortable, as long as I felt peace then I would do it; however, I didn’t feel that way at all. I did not feel any sort of peace. So the future that I thought I had planned out became one of uncertainty. I w as scared and unsure; this all having developed over the period of two weeks. I needed a break.
My break came when after working at the yacht club, on Saturday, June 6, 2009 I got off, read, and simply caught up on more prayer. Around five that evening I received a text message from my sweetheart, Adam, stating that he was cleaning up and would text me to figure out what we were doing later that evening. Well assuming I had free time on my hands, I read some more, not keeping track of the hour, and then decided to talk a walk down the lane.
As I got near the end of the driveway, I heard the familiar sound of a beat up muffler coming down the lane. It turned out to be Adam. As he pulled to a stop, at the corner of the lane and the driveway, he stopped the car and waited for a few seconds before stepping out of the vehicle. When he did, he caught my breath. He looked pretty doggone handsome in dark jeans, brown K-swiss shoes, a gray t-shirt, and ¾ sleeve button-up striped blue/yellow shirt I had bought him a few weeks previous to this night. Unbeknown to me, Adam, a week and a half before, during Memorial Day weekend, went across the river into Yorktown and shopped for an engagement ring! So back to the driveway, it took him a minute to nearly get out of the car because he was trying to hide the ring! He had brought it with him and wasn’t expecting to find me in the driveway/lane out for a walk, so he did the best he could and quickly stuffed it down his pants. :-P As he stood and walked over to me, the ring (which was in the box) fell to his ankle. Now remember, I had no idea any of this was going on, so when he got out of the car, my initial reaction was, “Wow! You look awfully snazzy! What are you doing all dressed up?” I know you’ve had a hard week and we haven’t been out on a date in a while so I’m taking you out,” he said matter-of-factly. He melted my heart and I’m sure you could read it all over my face as it broke into a smile. J I was still undeterred by this announcement and wanted to finish my walk so we ended up walking the lane together. Yet again, unbeknown to me, poor Adam was struggling and trying to make sure the ring wouldn’t fall out of his pants. He later said that he kept turning his head and looking around as well as adjusting his pants leg to check and make sure the ring was still there and hadn’t fallen out!
After the walk we hopped in his car and he drove us down the driveway to his parents’ house where I decided that since he looked so good for our date that I had to, too! I went upstairs and changed clothes while he ended up taking the box the ring was in and stuffed it down into his sock so it was sure to stay put. As we made our way across the river nothing seemed out of the ordinary except when he got a text message or two and fussed at me for trying to answer it for him. When we finally got in to Yorktown he took me to Red Lobster and told me I could order anything I wanted! Well of course its Red Lobster so what did I do? Order snow crab legs and a lobster tail; after all, it’s not every day you have seafood! We each had a delicious meal. The only setback: the freezing cold air that came out of a vent above our heads kept my feet cold all night long. (Be sure to keep in mind where the ring is at this point!) So he graciously wrapped his feet around mine, which by the way, did keep mine nice and warm. However, at his end of the table he was freaking out thinking I would hit the ring (which I did) but thankfully I never had the slightest idea.
After dinner, we meandered through the mall as it closed and then back to Borders where we each briefly glazed over magazines and books that did the least to catch our attention. After leaving the mall Adam suggested going to see the movie “Up.” However, since I had to work the next day, I chose to opt out of the movie and enjoy the rest of the evening by playing a game with his family. As we crossed over from the Gloucester into Mathews County line, Adam called his roommate, Marcus asking him if he wanted to hang out. I thought this was silly because, first of all Adam & Marcus rarely discuss their plans to meet up and hang out, it’s just something they do. I thought it odd, but again nothing too strange to make me think otherwise.
Finally, we pulled in the lane and Adam asked me to close my eyes. At this point I definitely knew something was going on. He parked the car to the left of the house, and made his way to my door where he helped me out and lead me over to the red bus which was a few feet away. *As a side note, to those of you who do not know, the bus is actually an old yellow school bus that Adam and his brothers, Luke and Joel, and best friend Kyle bought in high school, painted red, and refurnished as an RV—and p.s. Adam loves this red bus!* So as he pulled me along behind him, we climbed the stairs and stood on the bus and he then asked me to open my eyes.
The bus had been filled with tea candles all over the place as well as rose petals, a dozen roses (which sat upon the counter) and a Michael Buble CD playing in the background. It was all so beautiful and romantic! (Adam, with the help of his roommate, brothers, and family had the bus set up which is why things seemed a little odd with the cell phone and then again with the phone call to Marcus.) I guess for any typical proposal, he said some of the sweetest things (i.e., most beautiful girl in the world, perfect for him, couldn’t imagine spending his life with anyone else, etc.) and then knelt on one knee and asked me to be his wife, to which I replied, “Of course, yes!” So there you have it, the story our engagement J In all of this, God has been so very good, and I cannot help but give him praise and thanks for bringing me Adam. If you don’t mind, please pray for us as we are making plans and taking the steps to start our life together. Oh and p.s., the wedding date is November 14, 2009!
